Monday, November 15, 2010

Everybody, Is Somebody's Bitch

Everybody is somebody's bitch.
Period.

Oh yes, you have found yourself surrendering, giving, handling, tolerating, driving, silencing, cooking for someone whose love was unrequited. Why? Because EVERYONE is somebody's bitch.

Look, the time of denial is over. Yes, you want to believe that you have complete power over every decision that you make, but oh, you are under someone else's spell. It doesn't have to be love, sex, or even money...they just have you.

And you've got someone too. Everybody is somebody's bitch. As the benefactor you minimize. "Oh he just likes to do those things for me; She has it, so she feels open to sharing it....." All the while knowing you would not do for that person a tenth of what they are doing for you. Why? Because they're your bitch. And you? You're someone else's bitch. As the donor, well, you make excuses. You tell yourself..."he would do it for me...if she had it she would give it to me". See...you specialize in lies. The worst part? The only one being decieved is you. Why? Because you can't be powerful, amazing you without balancing....so you've gotta be bitched...it's all about the balance really.

So while we pretend to want to balance the scales, have a moment of honesty...okay for some a moment is too long...so you go ahead and take 5 seconds of honesty then. Remember when you were being bitched? What is that word you were feeling again? Oh yeah, I know....vulnerable. Well, your bitch is feeling that way right now...RIGHT NOW! While you're accepting gifts, not returning calls, or laughing to yourself or someone else about how "dumb" this person is for being your bitch...remember...

You're somebody's BITCH too.

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